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My boyfriend of over 3 years recently came clean about an encounter he had when we were broken up. He is in the Navy and I am in graduate school, so the majority of our relationship has been long-distance. At one point we both felt we needed to be apart and do our own thing for a while. However, after about 4 months he sent me a long, heart felt letter describing how much he loved me and wanted to try things again. I agreed to come visit him. However, I found out when I got there that another girl had been to visit him only 3 weeks prior. When I asked him, he said she was with a friend for work and they stayed in a hotel and only hung out a few times. I decided to let it go and our relationship grew. However, I did have a gut feeling he wasn’t telling the whole truth, and asked him about it several times after and he stuck to his story. Over a year later I asked him one last time and he finally came clean that she had in fact come to visit him and stayed with him. I’m torn between the amount that our relationship has grown in the time since that happened and the fact that he has lied about it all this time. I love him very much, and had planned on marrying him, but now am confused as to whether I should move on with or without him. I have complete trust in his behavior since that time, but am still very hurt over his deception. How do you know when to follow your heart and when to follow your mind?