Deep down, you probably already know the answer–but we can help you find the courage you need to take the next step.
Thanks for stopping by our website and our blog. If you are here, we suspect that you are having doubts about your boyfriend (or girlfriend). That is why we created this website and wrote our book –to help women evaluate their doubts and find the courage they need to get “unstuck” from the wrong guy. We have spent years gathering the stories of hundreds of women who dated and/or eventually married the wrong guys. Here are some things we uncovered in our research that you might find helpful:
- Every woman we talked to who opted to stay in a relationship with guy that she knew was wrong for her regretted it. Ditto for the woman who got married against her better judgment
- Every woman who ended the relationship with the wrong guy or called off the wedding DID NOT regret it. Not one!
- It can be more difficult to end a relationship with a nice guy than with an obvious liar, addict or cheater.
- Gut feelings can manifest as anxiety, depression, chronic stress, nightmares, a voice, migraines…the list goes on
- Problems do not get better with time, they get worse. They just do. Trust us on this one.
- We estimate that 3 out of every 10 divorced women knew their marriage was a mistake on their wedding day!
- Our advice applies to men, too.
While the background and circumstances of every relationship differ, the reasons for staying with the wrong guy do not. Our book, HOW NOT TO MARRY THE WRONG GUY is filled with thought-provoking questions and helpful strategies that address:
The Reasons – Whether it’s because they are afraid of being alone, afraid that no one better will come along, or because they are convinced that the situation will improve, women often stay when they want to get out.
The Signs – Red flags, that voice in your head and instinctive reactions may all be telling you to let go of your current guy. Learn how to recognize, tune in and pay attention to those signs that are trying to guide you.
The Feelings – Cold feet or pre-wedding jitters? It can be hard to distinguish the difference between the desire to marry “the one” or the desire to “get married.”
The Break-Up – Age, hurt feelings, settling, divorce, financial fears are all objections that might keep you from ending a relationship. Put these objections aside; hurting yourself to avoid hurting someone else temporarily is rarely the right answer.
The Right Guy – Words of wisdom from those who have found the right guy and made it work. Decide what qualities you do want in a partner and stick to them.
Whether you are engaged, in a serious relationship or looking for Mr. Right, Our book will help you decide to either take the plunge or run in the opposite direction.
What’s our number one piece of advice? Pay attention to your gut feelings. If you have any questions, please feel to contact us via the website. You can also follow us on twitter or become a fan on Facebook. WE ARE HERE TO HELP YOU! Thanks so much. Anne and Jen
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